Mothers are stubborn


When a child says, "Mom, I can't do it."
A mother will answer, "Yes you can!"

When a child says, "Mama, I failed."
A mother will reply, "A failure means you didn't try."

When a child says, "Mommy, no one wants me to here."
A mother will tell, "Just be patient. Be yourself."

When a child says, "Mother, am I ugly?"
A mother will question, "Am I ugly?" 

Mothers are really the most stubborn human beings. They never answered   their children the way their children asked of them. They never listened to our complaints, our doubts and our fears.   

And so....
When a child says, "I hate you Mom! Wish I have an option to choose a    mother!"
A mother will utter, "I LOVE YOU SO. You are the best gift God has given  me."

A mother knows her child, like our Father in Heaven knows us. Maybe    that's the reason why HE created our MOTHERS. 


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Conception in wonder

17426123_1502012643142597_690429343650407167_nDecember 8 is one of the most celebrated feast day in  Roman Catholic church. It is the feast of our Lady; the mother of Jesus, our God. This is the day, our mother Mary was conceived by her parents, St. Joaquin and St. Anne. The feast is called “Immaculate Conception”.

I believed that just as the date and place of birth is important to every human being, the date and place of conception should be given an important recognition too.

The start of life begins in conception. The meeting of the egg and sperm are in a race with a million others to become one.

During conception, our parents were present body, mind and soul. While at birth our father has the option to be there or not. It won’t make any difference at all.

Our conception can sometimes be called a “wanted”, or a “planned” and or an “accident”.

I wondered how it was for my parents at the beginning before I was conceived. It must have been in late February, the month of love. And I was proud to be conceived in the season of love.

Where was I conceived?

Was I wanted?

Did my parents truly love each other the time I was conceived?

The questions never end. The answers were never known. It exists only in the secret record in my mind. It will always be a mystery. And I wouldn’t mind because I know that anything is possible. And EVERYTHING IS A BLESSING.

Once upon a time

Once upon a time there was...
A fairy who likes to tinker. 
A princess whose as white as snow.
A queen who wants to "let it go".

Cinderella never asked for a prince
Elsa and Anna don't need a man to save them
Pocahontas didn't have a happy ending.

Jasmine kissed a villain
Maleficent was a princess that never saved 
Eugene was brought by a horse to Rapunzel, not destiny

Fairy tales are true
Yes they do come true
In our real world.


the story continues

Dear Bed

You were always there to comfort me
You were always there when I need a shoulder to cry on
You were always there to soothe away my tiredness 
You know me in my most vulnerable self when 3 am strikes
You know my fears
You know my dreams
You know the man I whispered in my sleep
You are my bed
No human can ever replace you.

Dark Side

” The darkness that surrounds us cannot hurt us. It is the darkness in your own heart you should fear.”


Love Is…

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LOVE – is a strong affection based on admiration and sexual desire for another person. For some, it is more than the strong feeling, it is more than  just a mere definition of the word. It is beyond what we know and feel. It is beyond our own understanding.

Here are  random thoughts/quotes of what we know love is :

(1). “If it is right, it happens – the main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away”. — John Steinbeck —

(2). “There is no fear in love, but perfect love cast out fear”. — Bible, 1 John 4:18

(3). “Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold”. — Zelda Fitzgerald —

(4). “The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them”. — Stephen King —

(5). “Love is always open arms”. — Leo Buscaglia —-

(6). “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye”. — Antoine De Saint-Exupery

(7). “One word frees us from all the weight and pain in life. That word is love”. — Socrates —

(8). “The course of true love never did run smooth”. — William Shakespear —

(9). “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; If they don’t they never were”. — Richard Bach —

(10). “If I know what love is, it is because of you”. — Hermann Hesse

Remember Charles Boyer ? He met his wife in a dinner party, got engaged after two weeks and after three months married her. The marriage lasted for 44 years because she died of cancer. After two days, Charles took his own life.

It is not for me to pass judgment on how he handled his grief. But it is for me to say that I am touched and comforted in a strange way. Touched by the depth of his love and comforted to know that a man and woman can love each other that much that long… And I understand why Charles did what he did. It really is possible to love someone that much.  — R. Fulghum —

Yes, it is possible. I’m certain of it.