Dear Bed

You were always there to comfort me
You were always there when I need a shoulder to cry on
You were always there to soothe away my tiredness 
You know me in my most vulnerable self when 3 am strikes
You know my fears
You know my dreams
You know the man I whispered in my sleep
You are my bed
No human can ever replace you.

Love Is…

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LOVE – is a strong affection based on admiration and sexual desire for another person. For some, it is more than the strong feeling, it is more than  just a mere definition of the word. It is beyond what we know and feel. It is beyond our own understanding.

Here are  random thoughts/quotes of what we know love is :

(1). “If it is right, it happens – the main thing is not to hurry. Nothing good gets away”. — John Steinbeck —

(2). “There is no fear in love, but perfect love cast out fear”. — Bible, 1 John 4:18

(3). “Nobody has ever measured, not even poets, how much the heart can hold”. — Zelda Fitzgerald —

(4). “The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them”. — Stephen King —

(5). “Love is always open arms”. — Leo Buscaglia —-

(6). “It is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye”. — Antoine De Saint-Exupery

(7). “One word frees us from all the weight and pain in life. That word is love”. — Socrates —

(8). “The course of true love never did run smooth”. — William Shakespear —

(9). “If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they’re yours; If they don’t they never were”. — Richard Bach —

(10). “If I know what love is, it is because of you”. — Hermann Hesse

Remember Charles Boyer ? He met his wife in a dinner party, got engaged after two weeks and after three months married her. The marriage lasted for 44 years because she died of cancer. After two days, Charles took his own life.

It is not for me to pass judgment on how he handled his grief. But it is for me to say that I am touched and comforted in a strange way. Touched by the depth of his love and comforted to know that a man and woman can love each other that much that long… And I understand why Charles did what he did. It really is possible to love someone that much.  — R. Fulghum —

Yes, it is possible. I’m certain of it.


-Who am I?

Am I my mother’s daughter? Am I my brother’s keeper? Am I a friend to my friends? Am I the enemy to my enemies? Am I a wife to my husband? A mother to my children?

-Where do I belong ?

Do I belong to my career? Do I belong to my success? Do I belong to my crib? Or myself?


Work of art by MJ Luha




Relationship status

“The hardest thing in life to learn is which bridge to cross and which bridge to burn” -David Russell


The space between us .. (It’s our ego that’s between us)

Long distance relationship… (It’s the quality time that we didn’t spend)

Complicated … (The feelings we didn’t express)

Married … (For legal purposes only)

Divorce … (Being free from the legal purposes)

Singleness …. (What’s relationship for?)